Our Words...for better or worse?

Have you ever said something and then wished you could take it back? Whether its something you said or an email or text you send, there are times that we wish we could just take it all back and start over. If only we could. The late Peter Marshall once said, "the solemn things about words is that before you speak them, you are their master. After you speak then they are your master." If only we could learn to control our mouths. The Bible speaks of words that are like diamonds set in jewelry; beautiful and fitting. Words build others up or they tear them down. How beautiful it is when our words lift others up. In the Bible book of James, we are told that with our words we bless God yet curse our fellow man. We may not use any four letter adjectives but if our words tear down, put down or destroy someone else, it might as well be a four letter word. The next time you are tempted to speak your mind, try to think about how your words will be interpreted and received. Perhaps just thinking about this might temper what you say and how you say it. The good Lord gave us two ears and one mouth. If only we could learn to listen first before we speak, perhaps there would be a lot less stress in this world, and certainly in our own lives. The Clippers basketball team owner is in hot water for saying some racial remarks in private, yet recorded for the world to hear. One thing we can learn from this is not to be two faced, but to be in private what we are in public. If we wouldn't say something publicly, perhaps we shouldn't say it in private either. If the damage is done, you cannot take back your words. But you can offer apologies and strive, with God's help to not repeat it again. And that is the key, asking God to help you and then use you for His glory. May your words be as diamonds, set in place, beautiful and fitting for every circumstance you find yourself in. Blessings, Pastor Pete